If you have to bring work home, set a specific amount of time it will take you to complete, let your mate know, and then when quitting time comes, quit! However, it is now too late so you choose to keep your car and make it work. You pick out the make, model, year, color, and features that you believe are best for you. Go on a Date Especially for married couples, but even for some dating couples, start dating.
There will be stress from the separation but by keeping in touch and informing each other of the things each person is dealing with, how they feel, etc.
Put your heads together and do what makes the most sense instead of battling for ownership of the solution. Take some time just to cuddle. You will find that as you pay attention to your kissing and let your mate know that you enjoy kissing them, you will both feel better about your relationship.
In the bedroom, have another note next to an overnight bag telling them to meet you at a specific hotel restaurant where you know the ambience is cozy and romantic.