This will help to remember what special things he or she likes or dislikes, track the wonderful times spent together, and help you to feel better when you hit an obstacle in your relationship. When your mate has done something that requires you to forgive, you have to forgive, REALLY forgive. For example, if you live in a place where there are caves, make a day of driving around and exploring caves. 55.
Have you ever overheard your mate make a comment to a friend or family member about something they really want or want to do?
At first, this will take some discipline but as you see positive results in the relationship, be encouraged that it is working. Special Music Select numerous songs that your mate would enjoy and have them either recorded on a cassette or burned on a CD that can be enjoyed while driving to and from work. Be patient and encourage new directions while being honest about concerns that might arise. Start a Journal Keep your personal feelings and discoveries about your mate in a journal. The truth is, both of you will have to work on this. 12-Month Calendar As a special gift, have a 12-month calendar created with pictures of special times spent between the two of you.
While he is out of town, wash his car and surprise him by picking him up in a clean, shiny car at the airport.