90. Once you have worked through the issue either together or with professional counseling, and you tell them that you forgive them, you can never hold that over them again. To add a little spice, record a few secret messages every few songs just reminding them how much you love and appreciate them. 37.
Again, without any reason, surprise her.
Make this a special time by packing a special lunch or snacks. Even if you have a busy schedule, be sure to schedule time to shop. Keep information shared to you by your mate in 100% confidence. Instead, change your strategy to include real questions, showing real interest.
Be patient and encourage new directions while being honest about concerns that might arise.