94. Embrace Change There is no relationship on the face of the planet that goes for years and years without change. Breakfast in Bed When was the last time you or your mate were served breakfast in bed? The next time the two of you are sitting in the car, at the grocery story, or standing in line at the theater, quietly reach over and take their hand.
Buy him a subscription to his favorite magazine.
You may not always like the changes that happen, but do not throw away a perfectly good relationship just because the trail starts to wind. A Walk in the Park Spending quality time together where you can talk and just enjoy each others company is critical to a good relationship. Step back in time and start getting dressed up more on the weekends, invite your mate to sit with you on the couch, dance together in your living room to some music, or take a walk, hand in hand. It is very common for people to notice something nice about another person and think about it internally, but never voice it. There are yearbooks, maybe love letters from a first love, other objects that may not seem important to one person but to the owner, they have a special meaning.
Predictability If asking couples the factors involved in the demise of their relationship, one of the common responses is that everything in the relationship is so predictable.