87. I know you love professional wrestling so I purchased two great seats for tonights performance, or I know we had planned on going to dinner, but I wanted to surprise you with something special. Are there definite things missing or definite problem areas that need to be worked on? When you make him pancakes, first pour the words, I Love You on the griddle and cook for a minute to brown. Take Pride in Yourself Every relationship goes through down time. There are going to be differences in opinion, and probably some disagreements.
Turn this into an adventure of going to estate sales together to find nice pieces of furniture and them refurbishing them as a team.
If needed, go to see a financial consultant or a credit counseling service to help you get back on track. Board Games Pick a night, perhaps on a cold winter night, and just enjoy playing board games. Find something that is important for your mate and not necessarily to you. In the bedroom, have another note next to an overnight bag telling them to meet you at a specific hotel restaurant where you know the ambience is cozy and romantic. These do not have to be expensive whatsoever.
Be sure to take the right equipment and safety precautions but this puts you both in a position of trusting each other and discovering something new and exciting together.