Listen to How You Talk When working on your relationship, more than likely you and your mate have settled into a pattern of speaking to each other. Every person needs assurance at some time or another and as long as you can communicate, things will be fine. You need to talk about this and ensure that any feelings of inadequacies are permanently put to rest.
This is how you keep romance alive!
Every person, even adults, like attention and love to be appreciated. Start by creating a trail of rose petals from the door to the kitchen where your mate will find a note to go to the bedroom. Reap What You Sow This is an old saying that goes back a very long way but it still holds true today. Once the plan is in place, no backing out unless you have some life and death emergency.
However, if you do not agree, do not yell, rather, the two of you need to calmly discuss the issue and together, work out a solution.