Step back in time and start getting dressed up more on the weekends, invite your mate to sit with you on the couch, dance together in your living room to some music, or take a walk, hand in hand. That Kiss As couples become comfortable with each other, kisses can become lame. First, when people are angry, hurtful words fly, usually not even meant. They made a decision of choosing to love their mate rather than relying on the warm and fuzzy feelings, which everyone knows will fade. Perhaps one of you has company coming and the house needs to be cleaned, laundry done, and groceries purchased. There is a difference.
No Interference Do not allow other people to interfere with your relationship.
Special Greeting If your mate has to work late and you know he had a bad day, surprise him with a late-night gourmet meal. Mentoring If you know of another couple from work or your church that has been married for many years and continued to have a strong relationship, ask them if they would mentor you. What secrets do they possess? It is definitely true that what you put into a relationship is what you get back. You may not mean it, but you know it hurts, thus making you the winner of the argument.
Perhaps they have a long commute to work.