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Valentines
One day when least expected, when your mate comes dragging in the door tired after a long, hard day at work, present this along with a gentle kiss. Men and women both need an outlet outside of the relationship where they can just let their guard down and have some fun with the same gender. For example, if there is a synergy house near where you live for unwed mothers, go in together and purchase a crib or baby clothes. Finally, add the element of surprise into the gift giving. Buy the theater popcorn and drinks but sneak your own candy in. This is hard work but within a very short time, you will both feel much better, individually and as a couple.
Take Pride in Yourself Every relationship goes through down time.
Listen to How You Talk When working on your relationship, more than likely you and your mate have settled into a pattern of speaking to each other. What happens is when you move to another person, things are fresh, new, and exciting just as they were in the beginning of your current relationship. If your mate makes a mistake, which you both will, let it go, or if appropriate, laugh about it. It is the same for relationships. This wonderful gift will last a lifetime!
If reversed and the woman is coming home, after giving her a lingering kiss, have her join you in the dining room where the table is set with soft glowing candles and a wonderful meal.
Every relationship goes through down time. Just because the flame has become a mild flicker, that does not mean you have lost the love for each other, it just means you need to add a little fuel to the fire. When couples have been together for a long time, the makeup comes off, the nice clothes turn into oversized sweats and tee shirts, and instead of cuddling on the sofa or floor, one sits on the couch and the other in the recliner. Step back in time and start getting dressed up more on the weekends, invite your mate to sit with you on the couch, dance together in your living room to some music, or take a walk, hand in hand. It is important not to let yourself go, even when your relationship reaches a comfortable state. By taking pride in yourself means that you take pride in your relationship.