Offering unnecessary information from the past is a great way to create distrust, insecurity, and more questions than answers. Re-establish Old Traditions If you and your mate had a tradition of some kind when you first got together, dust it off and breathe life back into it. Instead of bugging him to go to the grocery store with you, let him stay home. For example, if there is a synergy house near where you live for unwed mothers, go in together and purchase a crib or baby clothes. Be honest and say, You know, I got home after a busy day and I was too tired.
The next time the two of you are sitting in the car, at the grocery story, or standing in line at the theater, quietly reach over and take their hand.
All Decked Out Although most people do not get dressed formally to go out, as a special treat, find an upscale restaurant, the opera, or even a ball, where the man can wear a tuxedo and the woman an evening gown. 77. Say you had promised to make dinner, got home exhausted, and just did not feel like making it, do not tell your mate, I had to work overtime. 58. Have an envelope lying by her plate that when opened, she will read, This certificate is good for one thirty-minute massage after dinner. The motivation is that when finished, the two of you will take a beautiful, romantic weekend vacation to some exotic place.
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