Think of it like choosing a car. Then together, make a commitment to start over. By helping yourself, you are disrespecting something sacred to your mate, which is not healthy for any relationship. When taking a walk with your mate, stop and give them a soft kiss, say, I love you, and then keep walking. For example, if you live in a place where there are caves, make a day of driving around and exploring caves. Arrange the pictures to coordinate with the months and then as a Christmas or birthday gift, or just as a special surprise, present it to your loved one.
Just because the flame has become a mild flicker, that does not mean you have lost the love for each other, it just means you need to add a little fuel to the fire.
Allow the love of God to be your ultimate guide and spend time having devotions together at night. While sharing experiences about your day with your mate is perfectly normal, living your work at home is not. Listen to How You Talk When working on your relationship, more than likely you and your mate have settled into a pattern of speaking to each other.
Third, give with the right attitude.