Rent a billboard in a location where you know your mate drives every day that clearly says, I love you, request that your mates radio station play a special song and message on his or her way to work, or if celebrating a special anniversary, have a skywriter fly by a ball stadium, park, or somewhere special where you are spending quality time together outdoors. 80. Whether a surprise party or not, your mate will be impressed that you went to all the effort just for them.
Try establishing a set time for this very purpose, if possible.
Make this a special time by packing a special lunch or snacks. For example, if your mate wants to get intimate and you are not in the mood, do not say, I need to help the kids with their homework, or if something that needed to be done was not taken care of because you forgot, do not blame it on the kids by saying, I was taking care of the kids and did not have time. The idea of you getting the tickets for something THEY like and then keeping it as a special surprise will touch the heart! Do not dig through boxes of things owned by your mate out of curiosity.
If reversed and the woman is coming home, after giving her a lingering kiss, have her join you in the dining room where the table is set with soft glowing candles and a wonderful meal.