When things get a little tough, refer to your journal and read through all the terrific emotions and time together and you will find plenty of reasons to make things right again. If this sounds like your relationship, first, the two of you need to sit down and be honest that things have changed. Unless you are being abused or your mate is doing something illegal or completely irresponsible, perhaps the efforts you would put into starting a new relationship would be better spent fixing the one you have. It is important to respect the privacy of your mates stuff.
Set aside something you need done and offer to pitch in to help.
Being around positive influences and watching someone who leads by example is a great way to learn how to have a good relationship for yourself. 14. If your mate refuses to go, even if it is hard, leave. Another problem with anger is that the word divorce can easily be thrown around.
At first, this will take some discipline but as you see positive results in the relationship, be encouraged that it is working.