When your mate has done something that requires you to forgive, you have to forgive, REALLY forgive. For example, if your mate wants to get intimate and you are not in the mood, do not say, I need to help the kids with their homework, or if something that needed to be done was not taken care of because you forgot, do not blame it on the kids by saying, I was taking care of the kids and did not have time. While there are appropriate times for serious kissing, they should be loving, sincere, and passionate, regardless of how long they last.
Identify the things each other did in the beginning of the relationship that created the attraction in the first place.
When you hear him arrive home, greet him in new, sexy lingerie, a warm kiss, and wonderful hot meal. I Forgive You If something has happened in your relationship causing the trust to waiver, you will have many things to work through. Appreciate what nature has to offer and share it with each other.
It will not automatically be easy but it is possible.