Replace the normal, Did you have a good day at work? Just like the clich, If you do not have something nice to say, then do not say anything at all. Hit three or four movies and mix it up. Be Creative The words, I love you, are always welcomed but why not add some creativity to the way you tell your mate you love them. If you notice that your mate is spending more and more time on the computer, take this as a sign that even if not doing anything wrong, they are choosing to spend the time with the computer instead of you. It is the same for relationships.
Every person needs assurance at some time or another and as long as you can communicate, things will be fine.
Find something that is important for your mate and not necessarily to you. Look at Paul Newman and Joanne Woodard, Danny Devito and Rhea Perlman, or Nancy and Ronald Regan. If you are just starting out dating, religious preference may not seem like a big deal at first, but soon into the relationship, it can be a big trouble spot.
First, when people are angry, hurtful words fly, usually not even meant.