Healing in the relationship cannot start until you talk. The next time the two of you are sitting in the car, at the grocery story, or standing in line at the theater, quietly reach over and take their hand. When asked where you are going, simply answer, I have a surprise for you. Playing with your mates hair, rubbing their hand, a soft kiss on the neck, a soft pat on the leg or giving a gentle back rub will make a huge difference in how your mate responds to you.
Make this fun, exciting, and keep traditions alive.
Bringing spirituality into your relationship is important. If your mate shows aggression or any form of abuse toward you, seek counseling for both of you immediately to try to work through things. Mentoring If you know of another couple from work or your church that has been married for many years and continued to have a strong relationship, ask them if they would mentor you. The goal could be anything that is important to one person or both and that can be worked toward completion together.
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