59. 81. Instead of bugging him to go to the grocery store with you, let him stay home. You give because you appreciate and love, not because you want something back. Make this fun, exciting, and keep traditions alive.
The small gifts packed with thought are far more cherished.
When asked where you are going, simply answer, I have a surprise for you. If you try this and then drill them, to see what they did, whom they were with, and where they went, then the exercise has failed. If you believe that something is bothering your mate or not right in your relationship, keep it between you and your mate and work things out as a couple. For example, actually call them and ask, If you do not have any plans for Saturday night, would you like to go to a concert with me?
Think about it.